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10 Tips for Successful
Career Planning: An
Activity for Job-
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Career planning is not an activity that should be done
once — in high school or college — and then left
behind as we move forward in our jobs and careers.
Rather, career planning is an activity that is best done
on a regular basis — especially given the data that
the average worker will change careers (not jobs)
multiple times over his or her lifetime. And it’s never
too soon or too late to start your career planning.
Career planning is not a hard activity, not something
to be dreaded or put off, but rather an activity that
should be liberating and fulfilling, providing goals to
achieve in your current career or plans for beginning
a transition to a new career. Career planning should
be a rewarding and positive experience.
Here, then, are 10 tips to help you achieve
successful career planning.
1. Make Career Planning an Annual Event
Many of us have physicals, visit the eye doctor and
dentist, and do a myriad of other things on an annual
basis, so why not career planning? Find a day or
weekend once a year — more often if you feel the
need or if you’re planning a major career change —
and schedule a retreat for yourself. Try to block out
all distractions so that you have the time to truly
focus on your career — what you really want out of
your career, out of your life.
By making career planning an annual event, you will
feel more secure in your career choice and direction —
and you’ll be better prepared for the many
uncertainties and difficulties that lie ahead in all of
our jobs and career.
2. Map Your Path Since Last Career Planning
One of your first activities whenever you take on
career planning is spending time mapping out your
job and career path since the last time you did any
sort of career planning. While you should not dwell
on your past, taking the time to review and reflect on
the path — whether straight and narrow or one filled
with any curves and dead-ends — will help you plan
for the future.
Once you’ve mapped your past, take the time to
reflect on your course — and note why it looks the
way it does. Are you happy with your path? Could you
have done things better? What might you have done
differently? What can you do differently in the future?
3. Reflect on Your Likes and Dislikes, Needs and
Wants
Change is a factor of life; everybody changes, as do
our likes and dislikes. Something we loved doing two
years ago may now give us displeasure. So always
take time to reflect on the things in your life — not
just in your job — that you feel most strongly about.
Make a two-column list of your major likes and
dislikes. Then use this list to examine your current
job and career path. If your job and career still fall
mostly in the like column, then you know you are still
on the right path; however, if your job activities fall
mostly in the dislike column, now is the time to begin
examining new jobs and new careers.
Finally, take the time to really think about what it is
you want or need from your work, from your career.
Are you looking to make a difference in the world? To
be famous? To become financially independent? To
effect change? Take the time to understand the
motives that drive your sense of success and
happiness.
4. Examine Your Pastimes and Hobbies
Career planning provides a great time to also examine
the activities you like doing when you’re not working.
It may sound a bit odd, to examine non-work
activities when doing career planning, but it’s not.
Many times your hobbies and leisurely pursuits can
give you great insight into future career paths.
Think you can’t make a hobby into a career? People
do it all the time. The great painter Paul Gauguin was
a successful business person who painted on the
side. It actually wasn’t until he was encouraged by an
artist he admired to continue painting that he finally
took a serious look at his hobby and decided he
should change careers. He was good at business, but
his love was painting.
5. Make Note of Your Past Accomplishments
Most people don’t keep a very good record of work
accomplishments and then struggle with creating a
powerful resume when it’s time to search for a new
job. Making note of your past accomplishments —
keeping a record of them — is not only useful for
building your resume, it’s also useful for career
planning.
Sometimes reviewing your past accomplishments will
reveal forgotten successes, one or more which may
trigger researching and planning a career shift so that
you can be in a job that allows you to accomplish the
types of things that make you most happy and proud.
For more about accomplishments, read: Tracking and
Leveraging Accomplishments .
6. Look Beyond Your Current Job for Transferable
Skills
Some workers get so wrapped up in their job titles
that they don’t see any other career possibilities for
themselves. Every job requires a certain set of skills,
and it’s much better to categorize yourself in terms of
these skill sets than be so myopic as to focus just on
job titles.
For example, one job-seeker who was trying to
accomplish career planning found herself stuck
because she identified herself as a reporter. But once
she looked beyond her job title, she could see that
she had this strong collection of transferable skills —
such as writing, editing, researching, investigating,
interviewing, juggling multiple tasks, meeting goals
and deadlines, and managing time and information —
skills that could easily be applied to a wide variety of
jobs in many different careers.
For more about transferable skills, read: Transferable
Skills .
7. Review Career and Job Trends
Everyone makes his or her own job and career
opportunities, so that even if your career is shrinking,
if you have excellent skills and know how to market
yourself, you should be able to find a new job.
However, having information about career trends is
vital to long-term career planning success.
A career path that is expanding today could easily
shrink tomorrow — or next year. It’s important to see
where job growth is expected, especially in the career
fields that most interest you. Besides knowledge of
these trends, the other advantage of conducting this
research is the power it gives you to adjust and
strengthen your position, your unique selling
proposition. One of the keys to job and career
success is having a unique set of accomplishments,
skills, and education that make you better than all
others in your career.
For more about researching careers, review our Career
Research Checklist .
8. Set Career and Job Goals
Develop a roadmap for your job and career success.
Can you be successful in your career without setting
goals? Of course. Can you be even more successful
through goal-setting? Most research says yes.
A major component of career planning is setting
short-term (in the coming year) and long-term
(beyond a year) career and job goals. Once you
initiate this process, another component of career
planning becomes reviewing and adjusting those
goals as your career plans progress or change – and
developing new goals once you accomplish your
previous goals.
9. Explore New Education/Training Opportunities
It’s somewhat of a cliche, but information really does
lead to power and success. Never pass up chances to
learn and grow more as a person and as a worker; part
of career planning is going beyond passive
acceptance of training opportunities to finding new
ones that will help enhance or further your career.
Take the time to contemplate what types of
educational experiences will help you achieve your
career goals. Look within your company, your
professional association, your local universities and
community colleges, as well as online distance
learning programs, to find potential career-enhancing
opportunities — and then find a way achieve them.
10. Research Further Career/Job Advancement
Opportunities
One of the really fun outcomes of career planning is
picturing yourself in the future. Where will you be in a
year? In five years? A key component to developing
multiple scenarios of that future is researching career
paths.
Of course, if you’re in what you consider a dead-end
job, this activity becomes even more essential to you,
but all job-seekers should take the time to research
various career paths — and then develop scenarios for
seeing one or more of these visions become reality.
Look within your current employer and current career
field, but again, as with all aspects of career
planning, do not be afraid to look beyond to other
possible careers.
Final Thoughts on Career Planning
Don’t wait too long between career planning sessions.
Career planning can have multiple benefits, from
goal-setting to career change, to a more successful
life. Once you begin regularly reviewing and planning
your career using the tips provided in this article,
you’ll find yourself better prepared for whatever lies
ahead in your career — and in your life.
Find this article helpful? There are plenty of other
great career planning articles in this section of
Quintessential Careers: Career Planning Articles .

How to always look beautiful & handsome

WAKE UP CALL
Slough and soak to soften. During your
morning shower, exfoliate dead skin cells
before using your favorite body wash. Keep
showers quick and the temp not too hot to
minimize oil loss. Pat your body dry with a soft towel,
and, for the finishing touch, apply your favorite fragrant
lotion, heated with a hairdryer. Let your skin drink up as
much as it can for the ultimate in smooth skin... and
while you are at it, drink a glass of water, too. The more
hydrated you are on the inside, the more you will
radiate on the outside.
Befriend concealer.
Brighten up your entire face with dabs of
concealer. Use it on the inner and outer
corners of eyes to mask dark circles, the outer
sides of nostrils to cover deep pores and redness, and
the sides of lips to fill in lines. Follow it up with a light
blend of foundation plus moisturizer (both oil free with
sun protection) to achieve a smooth, even skin tone.
And always use clean makeup brushes!
Content-break
Tame your brows.
Well-groomed brows are the key to a polished
look. Regularly wax, thread or tweeze and
perform maintenance as needed. If you are
tweezer shy and only trust the pros, conceal stray hairs
with a swipe of bronzer on your browbone in between
appointments.
Experiment.
Seasonally (or more if you dare), replace your
favorite color product, be it lip gloss, eye liner
or shadow, with something new to feel re-
energized.
DAYTIME DUTIES
Become a survivor.
Assemble your "can't live without it" kit
consisting of three must-have beauty items
such as lip gloss, mascara, blotting papers,
concealer or a hairbrush. Create a few kits to stash in
key places -- your desk drawer, your glove
compartment and your purse for touch-ups.
A pinch goes a long way.
Pinch your cheeks and your lips just before
you want to make a great impression. This
teeny moment of pain will yield huge payoffs as
both areas will fill with a natural rosy color guaranteed
to make you glow.
Let your inner beauty shine outward.
All day long, be mindful of your stature. Stand
up straight with your shoulders back. Walk tall
and think positive thoughts. Offer up your
happiest smile, complete with whitened teeth (skip the
dark beverages or use a straw) and lips moisturized
with lip balm and glistening with your favorite gloss.
SWEET DREAMS
Come clean.
No matter how tired you are or how close the
sun is to rising, wash and moisturize your face
before you hit the pillow to detox your
precious pores of all of the dirt that has accumulated
during the day. At the very least, start with baby steps:
Tuck a pack of makeup remover wipes in your
nightstand.
Preserve your perfect manicure.
Apply a clear topcoat every other night post-
manicure to help your fabulous color polish
stay chip free for as long as possible. Also,
when doing dishes, using gloves will save your polish
too... not to mention help you avoid the curse of dry,
dishpan hands.
Bye bye, bedhead. Rule #1: Don't go to bed
with wet hair -- it increases the risk of hair
breakage. Rule #2: Brush your hair before bed
with a clean hairbrush (give it a soapy water
bath once a week). Rule #3: Add a few drops of your
favorite serum to fight morning

How to be brilliant at anything

5 Ways To Become Good At
Anything In Life
The five things I’m about to tell you about my
seem redundant or very similar in their qualities
but there is a huge difference in each that you
should be aware of. Having these five attributes
all at the same time will allow you to become
good at anything you want.
Want to make more money?
Want to succeed at virtually anything?
Want to become healthier?
Want to become smarter? Faster? Stronger?
It doesn’t matter what it is you’re trying to
because by knowing about and demonstrating
the five following activities you will make it your
bitch. You will completely own it and nothing
can stop you from doing so.
Ambition
Definition: A strong desire for success
Synonyms: initiative, passion, determined,
enthusiastic, thirsty
What does it mean?
Ambition is an absolute starting requirement to
be good at anything. You have to want to become
successful at whatever it is. It doesn’t matter if
you follow the rest of the five things perfectly. If
you do not have ambition, you’ll never achieve
what you need to achieve.
Ever hear the saying, “Do what you love and
love what you do?”
There’s significance behind it. If you love what
you do, your heart is in it with you. When your
heart is in something it makes the rest of these 5
things come easy. If your heart isn’t in it, you’ll
find that no matter what you do, you have to
force yourself to be good at it.
No one likes being forced to do anything.
Without heart, you’ll end up hating what you do.
Dedication
Definition: To set aside for special use
Synonyms: commit, devote
What does it mean?
Some people spend their entire lives dedicated to
the wrong thing, if you read about ambition you
would realize that the wrong thing means that
their heart wasn’t into it. Not only is this a
waste of your life, but it’s a waste to everyone
around you as well.
The factory worker that hates his job, while
dedicated to it, never has any heart in it, just
does the bare minimums to get by never really
excelling or adding benefit to what they do.
The teacher that teaches for the time off in the
summer that’s dedicated to teaching but without
heart fully behind it, their students suffer and
the cost is lack of education that could cost them
for the rest of their lives.
Dedication can be good and bad. Lots of people
in relationships devote their entire lives or large
portions of their lives to each other only to have
it end in ruin or disaster, or worse yet, they
wonder on their death bed as to whether or not
they did it all wrong.
How would that feel? You spend 70 years of your
life dedicated to someone only to wish you could
have it all back so you could do life over again,
but you can’t, because you only live once.
Your shot is hear and now. Don’t just become
complacent and accept things as they are, get
heart and dedicate yourself to something you
believe in, something you want, something
you’re passionate about.
Repetition
Definition: To do, make, or perform again
Synonyms: recite, repeat
What does it mean?
Now that you’e got the heart and you’re
dedicated, you need to repeat what you do. Not
just once, not just twice, but over, and over, and
over again.
You can’t become a pro basketball player just by
having the heart and being dedicated. Eventually
you’ll have to get out there and practice your
shots. You’ll have to train, you’ll have to do
things again and again, eventually you’ll know
how to do those things and even become good at
them.
They say practice makes perfect. Now I don’t
know what the hell perfect has to do with
anything, but practice is a necessary component
in becoming good at anything.
Persistence
Definition: To continue steadfastly or firmly in
some state, purpose, course of action, or the
like, especially in spite of opposition
Synonyms: Endure, persevere
What does it mean?
Even in the face of opposition, critiques, or
ridicule, you must go on. So you’re hearts into
something, you’ve got dedication, and you’re
doing it repetitively. Yes, when you first start
out doing something, chances are you aren’t
going to be that good.
If I gave someone a basketball who’s never had
one before and tried to show them how to play,
they might look awkward. People may make fun
of them. Some might tell them to give up before
even trying.
Enduring these stages of anything you are
attempting to do is critical. You can’t let anyone
or anything stop you, no matter what.
Confidence
Definition: Sure of oneself; having no
uncertainty about one’s own abilities,
correctness, successfulness
Synonyms: Certain, positive
What does it mean?
No matter what is going on around you, you
believe in yourself, in your team, or in others.
You know that you can accomplish anything.
What makes it easier to become confident?
That’s right, having the first four things under
your belt.
If your passionate, dedicated, practicing, and
being persistent, then chances are, you’ll have
confidence in what you’re doing. Stack those
attributes together.
1. You’ve got ambition: it’s something you
want to do.
2. You’ve got dedication: you’ve committed to
doing it.
3. You’ve got repetition: you know exactly what
to do because of practice
4. You’ve got persistence: no matter who says
what, your’e going to do it
5. And now you’ve got confidence: no matter
what happens you believe in yourself and
know you can be the best at whatever you’re
doing.
Think anything can stop you from being good at
whatever it is you’re trying to do?
Absolutely not!
An Experience From Me:
Throughout my time in school I was always
good, rather told I was good, at things like Math
and Science. One area I just never seemed to
become good at or do with any proficiency was
english. Even to this day, if you asked me to
explain to you what a verb, noun, or adjective
was; I’d have to google it. I don’t even care what
they are really, I write to sound.
Some people can play music by ear instead of
reading sheet music, while that’s precisely how I
write, by ear.
In high school from 7th to 11th grade, I passed 1
semester of an english class with a D- (thanks Mr
Blair) and I failed everything else. My heart
wasn’t in any of those classes and I simply
didn’t care, without natural talent in that area, it
was hopeless for me to pass any of those classes.
However, I always have wanted to write. It is my
greatest passion and still is to be a writer. I love
writing. I’ve always written a little bit, but about
6-7 years ago I started writing a lot and never
looked back. At first writing 400 words was a
major task and required a lot of thought process.
I didn’t feel good about anything I was writing,
but I did it any ways.
If I was asked to write a technical manual for
something, I would say I’ve never done one
before, but I’m going to do it anyways.
How about a legal document for court? Never
done one of those either, but now I have.
Can you write a strategy guide? Never done that
before, but I have done this as well.
How about a short story? How about a book?
How about a self-help how to guide?
Same answer. I’ve never done anything like it
before but I don’t care what it is, I’m going to
write it. I’m not only going to write it, I’m going
to write it good, and it’s going to be good. Does
it mean others will think it’s good? I don’t know,
but I don’t really care. I’m still going to make it
happen and do my best, and it’s going to be
good for me, which in the end means it’s good.
You see, I had the ambition that I was going to
become a writer. I had the dedication, I had the
repetition, I’ve written so many of the same
things over and over again. I’ve had the
perseverance (didn’t care what anyone thought,
and still don’t, I write for myself), and I have so
much confidence that I’m unbreakable.
So where am I today?
Today, I’m a full time writer, earning a pretty
good income off of my work (odd for not passing
any english classes right?). Whether or not you
like what I have to say or think I’m a good
writer, doesn’t really matter. I’m doing it and
I’m doing it well enough for me to call it a
success.
I’ve exceeded my wildest dreams and
expectations and I don’t plan on stopping. The
reason I wrote this article is so that you would
have some insight as to how I did it. I hope that
some of you will be inspired to tackle your
dreams, do what you want to do, and be what
you want to be.
Life is too short and you only live once. And if
you believe in reincarnation, good for you, get
everything you can in this life and when you
come back do it all over again.
Never give up on your dreams!

Us army most beatiful woman

US army has a secret weapon. Photos are
awesome!

There are lots of beautiful women in the world. It is
normal for one to run into these beautiful creatures
from time to time.
Some men who are lovers of women know the zones
to go to if they are looking for beautiful women. This
means that there are certain regions in the world that
are filled with beautiful and curvy women that many
will tag exotic.
In truth, some women dwell on their beauty, they are
willing to do nothing in as much as they know their
beauty remain a selling point. Some women are not
only beautiful, they are graceful and classy. Such
women are said to be made for kings and influential
people who will treat them like queens.
But the world has gone past the era where women are
made to stay back home and see to domestic affairs.
Women are starting to speak up and do things for
themselves; some of them are entrepreneurs who turn
heads and shake the sectors of the economy at the
same time.
Beauty queens do not want to stay in their palaces
anymore; some of them are taking on major projects
that will change their lives forever. This is because
they know beauty will not last forever. They want to
do things that will leave a lasting impact in the lives
of the people they come across daily.
This epistle will make us examine Lexx Jones who is
no doubt the sexiest woman in the US army. This
military officer is no doubt beautiful and curvy. You
do not want to mess with an officer like this.
The last place people will check if they are looking for
beautiful women in the society is in the force. This is
because there is misconception about the women
found there; normally, people think women found in
forces like that are filled with scars.
Lexx Jones is a hot booty model that will make you
drool all day. She is arguably the hottest and sexiest
woman in the US army. She took her time to post
some pictures on her Instagram page.
Find below some pictures of the beautiful military
officer:
1. Beautiful
She is a military officer that has gone through series
of training after all. She is not the regular woman you
know.
2. Flawless
Lexx Jones is not just an officer, she has a beautiful
skin that models will kill for.
3. Caption this yourself
One do not see a woman as beautiful as this in the
force everyday.
4. Hippy
This is definitely hotter than fire. It is intriguing to
know that this young woman is a military officer.
5. A fun day?
Being a military officer does not take away your right
to play and wear bum shorts. Lexx Jones looks
absolutely stunning in this outfit.
You will not want to hit on her rudely. Lying beneath
all that femininity is a strength that will shock you.
6. Curvy
Lexx Jones will definitely turn heads in this red dress.
Hours of working out have done a good thing to her
body.
7. Slaying
There are certain outfits that women are afraid of
rocking because of their bodies. Lexx Jones is
confident and sure of her body. She looks smashing in
this outfit.
This woman can do it all: be a good solder and the
headturner as well!

Benefits of orgasm on the body

The amazing benefits of orgasm for sleep
revealed!

What is the best remedy for bad sleep? You surely
would be pleasantly surprised to learn what the
science says about it!
You may have many causes of bad sleep at night, but
what if you are overlooking the major one? Which one
is that? The lack of orgasms! Scientists have
discovered a link between having pleasure in sex and
good sleep at night.
How can orgasm cure insomnia? Well, when you have
it, your body generates and releases many different
hormones. These regulate all the processes in the
organism. Some of them help you to calm down, feel
better and cope with stress. Once that happens, you
naturally get better sleep at night.
Plus, many men easily fall asleep after the sex.
Women wonder why that happens. Some of the ladies
feel neglected by such behavior. However, again we
have the good news from the scientists. Those who fall
asleep easily after having an orgasm have greater
desired to bond with their partners. They trust them
more to just fall asleep and be so vulnerable.
Plus, during the sex all your body muscles get
strained, then having the orgasm, they relax and stay
that way during the sleep, contributing to its quality.
You get more restored, when you sleep after good sex.
So, as you see, orgasm is the ultimate natural cure for
sleep problems. Why not benefit from it the most?!

Their first attempt to make love was a huge fail

Their first attempt to make love was a huge
fail
What happens when you make love for the first
time in your life? Most couples get through the
process successfully and safely, but these two young
people ended up in hospital with serious injuries!
Read their first experience in bed story.
They come from Vietnam and apparently none of them
had those sex education conversations with their
parents or teachers. That’s what happens, when young
energy meets with the lack of experience. They
decided to get busy and both were virgins.
The young people knew that unprotected sex may
result in an unwanted pregnancy. Neither of them had
a condom, but they got hot and became quite
“inventive”. The man tied a plastic bag to his
manhood! Can you imagine that?
He believed the bag was as good as the “professional
rubber gear”. And they had the first sex. First
experience can be painful all on its own, let alone
when it is done with the bag on one’s penis!
They got really badly scratched in the most private
parts of their bodies and had to be taken to the
hospital. The doctors say both are students from a
college. Here is what the folks at the hospital say about
the injuries:
“As the plastic bag was rough and lacked elasticity and
lubrication, the young couple ended up scratching their
genitals to the point of bleeding.”
Pretty likely the two of them will not be so eager to
get busy again anytime

12 things you should never be ashamed of during making love

12 things you should never be ashamed of
during making love

Many things can happen during sex. You may get an
orgasm, fall in love and even create the new life!
But there are also other, less pleasant things, that
often happen during sexual intercourse. And they
can happen not only with your partner but also
with you.
You might have probably seen in some common
melodrama or erotic movie that when people make
love, everything is very romantic, beautiful, exciting,
no put on socks or forgotten cups on the bed. In other
words, everything is IDEAL. But those who had sexual
experience know that all this is a nonsense, and
actually it doesn't work that way.
Good news is that the majority of things we worry
about during sex are quite normal "side effects." We
must understand that if we pay attention to these
small issues that usually worry us more than our
partners, we will destroy the magic of the moment for
which we love sex so much. That's why clever people
learn either not to notice such moments or to laugh at
them. Because if we learn this, we will become free
and will trust our partner more who learned this with
us.
So, which weird things can make you feel shy, and
should you actually pay attention to them?
1. Weird sounds
Yes, weird sounds can come out from anywhere: from
your mouth or from other places of your body. All in
all, sex is the physical process. That's why there is
nothing weird if you completely give yourself to the
process and allow yourself some breadths. But many
people are ashamed if something like this happens to
them, and destroy the romance that they would like to
feel so much. You shouldn't forget that not only you
but also your partner can emit such sounds. And if
this happens even with him, why should YOU be
ashamed of this?
2. The amount of time you need to reach an orgasm
If you imitate orgasms one by one because you can't
reach normally even once, then you should better stop
doing this. Because your complexes and useless
thoughts make you need much more time from
reaching a climax than when you don't think about
anything at all.
3. Discussing what you would like to try in bed
It is 2016 outside, and the human rules his or her life
and everything that happens around. However, still
many are afraid of asking for something that we want
to try in bed. And, frankly speaking, it is hard to
understand - why?! The quality of sex depends on this!
And there is nothing shameful in the wish to get
pleasure during the sexual intercourse.
4. Problems with excitement
Some men may have problems with erection. And this
is not something they should be ashamed of and
become dispirited. Very often our body and mind may
be not in agreement with each other. And in some
cases we «want» with our head while our body can
refuse at the same moment. In this case, the prelude
can help you. All in all, you may refer to a doctor if
this happens too often. You in no way should be
ashamed of this or become upset.
5. Impossibility to reach an orgasm
Very often, men or women (especially women) face
problems in reaching an orgasm. And before trying to
imitate it, try to start thinking about the goal of sex
and possibility to become closer to your partner or
simply spending time with pleasure without
concentrating on how important this process is for the
Universe. Such method yields its fruits: it will be
much easier for you to relax during the sexual
intercourse. And don't forget that there is nothing bad
if you don't get on the peak of the sexual pleasure,
because this is actually an ascension, not an
immediate teleportation.
6. Wind
When your legs are raised up and spread wide for the
maximum penetration, it is quite normal that you
may have wind. But if you think too much about this
problem, you can't completely concentrate on the
process. But there is nothing more important than it,
is it? It is important to keep in mind that it is easier
to laugh at everything that happens with us and turn
it into a joke rather than worrying and being
embarrassed because of this.
7. When you need a small break
Sex is always a training. A wonderful, bringing
pleasure, but still a training. And this means that at
some moment you may get tired and even exhale. You
will need recover breath, relax and maybe even
refresh yourself. There is nothing you should be
ashamed of in this. Actually, if you got tired even
more than your partner did, then you tried harder,
and this is worthy of respect.
8. Know how to say "no"
There are thousands of things that may happen during
sex, and you may simply not like some of them. But
you can refuse from them at any minute! This will not
turn you into a hypocrite, and you shouldn't worry
that your partner will consider you to be a boring
person. Maybe you are simply not ready for this, and
probably may not ever be ready. If your partner can't
accept this fact, maybe your should think if he is
worth staying by your side.
9. Body hair
If there is hair on my body, and this is not eyelashes,
eyebrows or it is not on my head - it must be
immediately destroyed with no compromises! – This is
the opinion the majority of women stick to trying to
be something like an ideal on the poster when they
will have to bare themselves before making love.
Actually, more often this issue doesn't play any role
for your sexual partner.
10. How you have an orgasm
Many women and men confess that when they reach
an orgasm, their neighbours can hear this, and even
people in the passing by cars can. Talking about the
sounds, rather than about their level, many are
ashamed of their emotions. But don't forget that for
many people, especially for men, sounds of orgasm of
their sexual partner are already the perfect music, and
the more emotional it is - the better.
11. Fantasies about someone
If during sex you think about someone else but your
partner, probably you should consider the possibility
of changing this person. However, there is nothing
bad in closing your eyes and imagining a sex-symbol
or even someone you know who excites you in some
degree. This doesn't mean that you don't love your
partner. This means only that you are a completely
normal person who would like to have sex with
someone who seems sexual for you.
12. Peculiarities of your body
Each of us has something he or she would like to
change in own body and appearance: to lose weight or,
vice versa, to gain it, to change the form of the nose
or chin, make legs longer and hips - smaller. But there
is one detail: a person you have sex with has the same
concerns about appearance as you do. And at the same
time you may even not know what he worries about
so strongly. That's why you need to perceive your
body as given and stop being ashamed of it.