Reasons Why a Woman Becomes Unfaithful to
Her Partner
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When a woman cheats on her partner , it’s not always a
decision made in the heat of the moment. Often there
has been a slow breakdown in her relationship that led
her to someone else’s arms. Here are some of the
reasons why a woman becomes unfaithful.
1. She doesn’t feel cherished
A woman needs to feel loved. If her partner isn’t
making her feel like she is valuable and that no one
else could make him as happy as she does, this may
cause her to seek validation elsewhere.
In a story for Power to Change, psychologists Judith
Sherven and James Sniechowski said it’s important for
a woman to feel significant. “At the heart of what a
man needs to know about a woman is that she wants,
even needs to feel special. Special for being who she
really is, special in the eyes of the man she loves,”
said Sherven and Sniechowski.
2. There’s a lack of physical contact
Touch is important for a relationship to thrive. Without
it, both parties will feel taken for granted. If a woman
isn’t receiving loving touch on a regular basis, this
will cause her to feel as if she’s not desired. Kristine
Gasbarre, author of How to Love an American Man ,
elaborated on this idea. “A woman loves when a man
pursues her. Being desired is the core need of a
woman’s psyche,” Gasbarre said in a story for The
Date Report.
3. She doesn’t feel heard
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An important part of building intimacy is not only
listening to each other but also hearing each other. A
woman wants feel she is being heard when she
speaks. She wants to know her partner is listening
with his or her entire being and that they’re able to
empathize with her and validate her experiences.
Without this connection, she’s more likely to become
unfaithful.
April Masini, relationship expert and founder of
relationship advice site Ask April said doing your best
to make sure a woman feels heard can help nurture the
relationship. “Make your partner feel important. One of
the biggest complaints women have is that they’re not
listened to by their partners. It’s free, it’s not time
consuming, and it sure isn’t fattening to listen to your
partner and make them feel heard. In fact, if you listen
and then remark or engage on what you’ve heard,
you’re not just on your way to better intimacy,
chances are, you’re going to have better sex, too,”
Masini told The Cheat Sheet.
4. You put her down
If you want your lady to steer clear of cheating, don’t
be harsh. If you say rude things and regularly inject
your conversations with criticism and put-downs, the
instant another person treats her well and says
something nice will likely be the moment you’ve lost
her. If you don’t do anything to boost her self-esteem
and make her feel good, someone else will.
5. The sex is bad
If you’re not laying down the law in the bedroom ,
you’ll eventually have a problem on your hands.
Women love sex just as much as men, so don’t be
selfish when it comes to pleasing your woman. Masini
said it’s important to remember to keep things
interesting. “Get out of the rut you’re in, whether it’s
another night of missionary-position sex or the same
old routine when you come home from work. Shake it
up with a trip, dinner on the floor for an indoor picnic,
or a surprise party for a non-birthday. Thursday is
reason enough for a party! This sounds goofy, but it’s
not. It’s the way you get to know each other and
regard each other beyond the mundane. Try doing
things differently—not just for your partner, but for
yourself, too—and simply getting out of those comfort
zones and those ruts, will bring you closer with your
partner,” Masini said.
Source: cheatsheet.com
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