wondered about the guy who never seems to
want for a partner when hanging out –
whether you meet him at a café, a bar or at
the opera, he always has a gorgeous woman
on his arms. And to come to think of it, he is
not even smarter or richer than you. So what
is it about some men that ladies find
irresistible while apparently more suitable
guys get left out? The answer perhaps lies in
personality types that attract women like
moths to the flame; and in case you are still
wondering what they are, here is a brief list
of the ten types of guys women are
inevitably drawn to.
1. The ambitious go-getter
He is guy who dreams of making it to the
top of the professional ladder and has
enough grit and competence to get him
there. A woman is attracted to him
because she knows that if she can stick
long enough with him, she may find a life
of luxury and indulgence awaiting her
down the line. However at the same time,
she may not be able to spend as much
time with him as she would like. Such a
guy is bound to be intelligent, a pleasure
to talk to but also a workaholic, pushing
himself harder all the while to climb still
higher. Indeed he may not even be above
to using his partners to achieve his
professional goals. Incredibly though,
this supreme ambition makes him all the
more irresistible to a woman.
2. The Sportsman
He is the guy who has his weekends
packed with matches with his fellow-
players and when he is not on the field
himself, he has his whole gang come over
to watch a game on the TV. And yet a
woman in a relationship with him can
look forward to long hours spent in the
outdoors - hiking, walking, biking amidst
nature or camping to catch the beautiful
sunset on the hills. Add to this, a fit,
well-toned body coupled with an open,
energetic mind and she may not mind all
the loud cheering that goes on in her
home during a match.
3. The Geek
The best places to meet a geek are
probably at a dating website or at the
library in the Computers section. A
woman may be initially drawn to him after
finding that he is fantastic with fixing the
anti-virus in her laptop and also
programming her dishwasher so that she
needn’t change settings ever. Eventually
though she will also come to appreciate
the fact that he is a low-maintenance guy
who is sufficiently wrapped up in himself
so as not to expect her to massage his
ego all the time. And even if sometimes
shy and often socially inept, he is likely
to come loaded with the greenbacks,
thanks to profitable internet start-ups and
high-paid software jobs.
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4. The chilled-out dude
This is the type of guy who couldn’t be
bothered to fix a leaky faucet unless the
bathroom is actually under four feet of
water. He is only too happy to let the
good things of life find him and incredibly
enough Lady Luck does seem have a way
of walking half-way to meet him – or how
could he end up attracting girls left and
right? While this laidback approach to life
may include several missed opportunities
in work and love, it also translates into a
“live and let live” philosophy which
women find irresistible, particularly those
who have been at the receiving end of
overly-critical and controlling men in the
past.
5. The Artist
Women find the artist impossible to resist
for the simple reason that he embodies a
life of creativity and passion which is not
sold out to commerce and ‘filthy lucre’.
Even though this guy may not make a
living selling paintings on the sidewalk,
he is probably engaged in something that
allows him to express his artistic side -
like a curator in a museum, a fashion
designer with a reputed studio or a
photo-editor in a magazine. He may not
bring home the biggest pay packet but
that is because he likes to be engaged in
work that satisfies his creativity. And
even though he is liable to be sometimes
moody and unpredictable, women find
him irresistible because he can woo them
like no other man – with poems he may
have written just for them or with a
photograph which makes his partner look
like a diva.
6. The Intellectual
The absent-minded Professor figures as a
more sedate variation of the above artistic
type but is no less attractive to women
looking for a life of stability and
intellectual discussion. Rather unfairly
stereotyped as wearing different colored
socks on either feet and perpetually
looking for his reading glasses while they
are perched right on his nose, the
intellectual guy is often derided for lack
of his social graces and romantic side.
However as a life partner, the professor/
researcher/ scientist can offer almost
everything that a long term relationship
thrives on – financial security, emotional
availability and physically being there
when his partner needs him.
7. Drawn-to-danger guy
He is the one that almost all female
fantasies are made of. An earthquake
expert, international spy, hot-shot war
correspondent – call him by any name
but the fact is he likes to live on the
razor-sharp edge of safety. He is happiest
when flying from one trouble zone to
another and bringing back images of what
we in our pathetically-cocooned lives can
only dream about. It is this constant
association of danger and impermanence
which makes this guy incredibly
irresistible to women. Unfortunately their
temporal presence never makes for more
than a casual affair but then what an affair
that is!
8. The show-off
Relationship experts often warn men not
to show off when dating or make too
much noise about their latest million-
dollar condo. At the same time though,
when done with the right level of
confidence and pizzazz, such
expressions of vanity can attract women,
particularly those who are in search of
security and assurance from others. And
indeed, there is usually a kernel of truth
behind all that self-aggrandizement. More
often than not such a guy will be
successful in his profession and even
hold a certain standing in society.
9. The Bad Boy
He is the quintessential guy every
woman’s mother warns her about and
precisely for this reason, she cannot
seem to get him out of her mind. He will
stand a woman up on dates, ask her to
pay his bills and even flirt with other girls
right before her eyes. But the same time
he is unpredictable, outrageously non-
conformist, knows how to give her a good
time and couldn’t care less what the
world thinks of him. So many of these are
exactly what she would like to do herself
that she can’t help but admire this guy
and even fall for him.
10. Mr. Nice Guy
This is the kind of guy a woman is
looking to take to meet her family. He is
considerate of her emotions, never
forgets to hold her jacket and always
remembers the anniversary of their first
date. The problem with him is that he is
too predictable and does not mind people
running him over. And if a woman really
loves him, sometimes she suspects it is
more out of pity than out of respect.
Despite being the butt of many jokes,
such guys are actually hard to come by
and if a girl has just broken up with an
unfeeling and uncaring ex, the soothing
presence and the thoughtful attentions of
this guy may be just the thing she needs
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